Goodbye and Farewell

GOODBYE Dear Readers: This is my last post for Live to Write – Write to Live. It has been deeply gratifying to post my thoughts about the business and craft of writing here every other week for almost eight years. I have enjoyed sharing my knowledge, my successes and...
Arguing About the Word “Grandfather”

Arguing About the Word “Grandfather”

I’ve spent the last three weeks arguing about the word “grandfather.” VPR v. VT DIGGER  Vermont Public Radio found the word “grandfather” too specific and VT DIGGER didn’t think it was specific enough. Both media outlets refused to broadcast/publish the piece as I...

Thank You For Your Support

THANK YOU I’m so grateful to my readers for the outpouring of support in response to the publication of He Was My Grandfather, my story of being silenced for telling my story of childhood sexual abuse. The response has been as astounding as it’s been affirming. I...

When Does Editing Become Censorship?

WHEN DOES EDITING BECOME CENSORSHIP? I recently had to answer this question when Vermont Public Radio prohibited me from using the word “grandfather” to name my childhood abuser. They insisted on alternatives, like “male relative.” I refused. For ten days we went back...